
In the cartoon, a student is on a podium and gives a speech without speaking. The audience mostly shows approval with one person giving a thumbs up, another showing two peace signs and another sticking his tongue out, while the teacher commends the speaker. This clear moment shows a main idea: our movements and actions can often be as effective as words.
Nonverbal communication – the silent way to show feelings through body language and face expressions affects how we relate to each other. In comparison to spoken words, we use it all the time, and it happens through many ways at once and can occur without our knowledge. A smile or folded arms or a certain look can show feelings, trust or honor without one word. The chapter names eight types of nonverbal communication, and each provides their own special meaning.
For example, you may want to say you’re excited at a job interview, yet a strong handshake and clear eye contact along with straight posture shows you mean it. On the other hand if you move around or do not make eye contact, it can make them feel uneasy and can weaken what you say. Teachers see when students aren’t paying attention and they know this means students are not interested.
All interactions depend on these nonverbal signals (subtitle: Nonverbal Communication). When a friend sighs and rolls his eyes during a rant, it shows more care than a scripted reply. Even emojis are a type of body language, they give extra meaning to messages and furthermore pull people together online and in real life.
Knowing how nonverbal body signals work does not need perfect skill but awareness. When you copy a coworker’s stance to create closeness or try to understand why a loved one’s arms are crossed, you deepen your grasp of nonverbal body signals. As the student on the stage shows, often the strongest messages are not spoken.